PENGUATAN PROGRAM BIMBINGAN PRA-NIKAH SEBAGAI UPAYA PENCEGAHAN PERCERAIAN USIA MUDA DI KUA KENCONG

Faisol Hakim; Puji Maulana; Fitriyatul Munfaridah; Lita Nafilatul Ilmi; Richma Fitriani; Asna Asna; Ahmad Hafidz Lubis

doi:10.62097/pandalungan.v3i2.2266

Faisol Hakim Universitas Al Falah As Sunniyah Kencong Jember https://orcid.org/0000-0003-3268-5596
Puji Maulana Universitas Al Falah As Sunniyah Kencong Jember
Fitriyatul Munfaridah Universitas Al Falah As Sunniyah Kencong Jember
Lita Nafilatul Ilmi Universitas Al Falah As Sunniyah Kencong Jember
Richma Fitriani Universitas Al Falah As Sunniyah Kencong Jember
Asna Asna Universitas Al Falah As Sunniyah Kencong Jember
Ahmad Hafidz Lubis Universitas Islam Syarifuddin Lumajang

DOI: https://doi.org/10.62097/pandalungan.v3i2.2266

Keywords: Community Service, Young-Age Divorce, Pre-Marital Counseling, ABCD, KUA Kencong

Abstract

The high rate of divorce among young couples has become a concerning social issue, including in Kencong, Jember Regency. Based on data from the Kencong Religious Affairs Office (KUA), most divorce cases in 2023 involved couples around 21 years old, with primary causes including economic problems, social media influence, and pressure from extended families. This community service aims to support efforts to prevent early-age divorce by strengthening the pre-marital counseling program at KUA Kencong. The method used is the Asset-Based Community Development (ABCD) approach, which includes the stages of preparing, discovering, dreaming, defining, designing, and destiny. Activities were carried out through field observations, interviews with religious counselors, as well as mentoring and reinforcement of the existing pre-marital counseling program. The results indicate that strengthening this program has improved young couples’ awareness in preparing for marriage emotionally, spiritually, and socially. The implication of this activity is the need for sustainable collaboration between academics and the KUA to develop contextual and continuous educational programs that can reduce early-age divorce rates.

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